Tuesday, March 17, 2020

Coronavirus lockdown -- looking back

Last night, we held our monthly book club meeting remotely via Zoom.  We're all over 60 and thus "high risk," so we decided in an abundance of caution to alter our plans. Every day brings new measures as we hunker down and try to avoid getting sick or infecting those around us. As the medical professionals describe it, we are attempting to flatten the curve of the outbreak so it won't overwhelm our medical capabilities.

One of my fellow "bookies" suggested that it might be a good idea to keep a journal so that a year from now, when we look back, we can remember how things progressed and how bad it was (or optimistically, how bad it wasn't because we took drastic steps).   

The world has changed dramatically in the past two weeks.  It started changing in January in China, but people elsewhere didn't take enough notice.  And then suddenly, it started to show up everywhere. And just like our leaders and even the media, we were slow to accept how fundamentally everything would change.  

We spent the last weekend in February / first days of March in Seattle visiting our kids and grandkids.  They were a bit under the weather with the flu and colds, so we mostly just hung around, played with the little kids, and visited. And we watched the news, as Seattle suddenly became the epicenter of the US outbreak. Coronavirus found its way into a nursing home among a vulnerable population who are most susceptible to its worst effects. It spread rapidly and people started dying quickly.

It became likely that the kids' daycare would close, leaving our daughter and son-in-law trying to work at home while coping with 2 pre-schoolers. We briefly contemplated staying to help, but decided we should leave Seattle while we could.  That was March 3.

At that point, Minnesota was pretty unscathed. Only a couple cases were reported, and they were people who could definitely identify how they were exposed.  Safely home from the hotspot, we carried on as usual.  Attending a few events, working out at the Y, walking the skyways downtown, eating out.

We were scheduled to leave on March 18 for an Overseas Adventure Travel trip to Israel and then a cruise of the Greek Islands.  We were starting to get a bit nervous but still thought we would go. Then, on Saturday, March 7, Israel instituted a mandatory 14-day self-quarantine for all arriving foreigners.  I canceled our flights and hotels in Tel Aviv and waited for OAT to officially cancel the trip.

In a way, OAT was a bellwether for how adventuresome but educated people regarded the outbreak. OAT people are well-traveled and love to visit out-of-the-way places. We are older (which might mean wiser), and while we don't have the foolhardiness of youth, we also don't have the responsibilities of young parenthood to make us supremely cautious anymore.

Throughout that week, OAT selectively canceled trips around the world based on the status of the outbreak. We watched as things progressed rapidly. Countries closed their borders and instituted lockdowns. The virus spread to every corner of the world.  Finally, on Thursday, March 12, OAT made the painful decision that they were canceling all of their March and April departures.

On Sunday, March 15, our Minnesota governor made the decision to close all schools starting March 18.  The initial closing period of 2 weeks is to be used by educators to figure out plans for the possibility of reopening only as distance-learning institutions.  Beyond March 31, we don't yet know if schools will remain physically closed and for how long. All large venues (theaters, sports' facilities) closed as well.  Last night, our governor announced that all bars, restaurants, and gyms will close.  His message was simple. "Stop congregating, people!!"

So in a matter of 12 days, we went from thinking we still my risk a trip to Israel and Greece to being in virtual lockdown in our home.

I've read quite a few dystopia novels -- some excellent, others mediocre. In general, they are set in the rubble after disaster has struck.  The disaster might be nuclear war, pandemic, meteorite. They rarely depict the events leading up to the disaster. I sincerely hope that, with the drastic measures we are taking around the world, we're not getting a firsthand look at pre-dystopia.

And on that happy note, I'm off to practice yoga and then have video story time with our grandkids in Seattle.

Quote of the Day -- Annie Dillard

The life of sensation is the life of greed; it requires more and more. The life of the spirit requires less and less; time is ample and its passage sweet. 
-- Annie Dillard

Monday, March 16, 2020

Quote of the Day -- Journal of the American Geriatrics Society

A fall is an unintentional loss of balance causing one to make unexpected contact with the ground or floor.  
-- Journal of the American Geriatrics Society 
(via Susan Moon, this is getting old)

Sunday, March 15, 2020

Women I Have Loved

Love comes in different flavors.  And one flavor is the desire to embrace a certain style of thought and turn of phrase, to savor it, and make it last.  It's a feeling that comes over me when I read particular women writers -- much stronger than simply "I wish that I had written that."

Right now, I'm reading this is getting old by Susan Moon.The book is 10 years old, so when she wrote it, she was only a bit younger than I am.  Her self-examination of what it feels like to get older is filled with self-compassion and wry humor. Her introspection is deep but not self-important.  There's just something about it that makes me sigh "yes" ...




I have a similar response to Anna Quindlen. Her fiction is painstakingly well-written, engaging, and tear-jerking. But it's her non-fiction that I really love. I recently read Nanaville, her chronicles of her journey as a grandmother. She has such a wonderful combination of finding the humor and the depth in everyday situations, not to mention a dexterity with words that comes from years of practice.




And of course, Ann Patchett.  I love, love, love her fiction, but it's her non-fiction that leaves me breathless with admiration. I recently read This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage, a collection of long-form, finely crafted essays. Patchett writes, among other things, about the craft of writing. She's a practitioner who studies and practices, never pretending that the elegantly-turned phrase just comes naturally, without effort.  I had the pleasure of hearing Patchett speak on her book tour for The Dutch House.  Her presentation and stories seemed natural and effortless, but having read her discussions of her process, I appreciate how much work goes into the appearance that it isn't work at all.

I'm a fan of a certain type of science fiction that I think of as fantastic (or fanciful) cultural anthropology.  Ursula Le Guin is (or was, since she passed away several years ago) one of my favorite writers in that sub-genre.  And like the other women I have loved, she produces excellent non-fiction essays as well.  In her eighties, near the end of her life, she assembled a collection called No Time to Spare.  Like Susan Moon, she ruminates on the joys and aches and pains of aging with tenderness, humor, and a bit of anger that the world doesn't properly respect the wisdom of elders.

My hit parade wouldn't be complete without another Anne -- Anne Lamott.  She's definitely the funniest of the bunch, but she's equally introspective, searching, and plumbing the depths of what it means to be a woman, a mother, a grandmother, and just a thoughtful human being.  Like Ann Patchett, she writes about the craft of writing in Bird by Bird.  For her, it is oftentimes both painstaking and painful, but something she can't live without.



 
And the grandmother of them all, Virginia Woolf. Years ago, reading A Writer's Diary, I discovered the magic of the finely-tuned essay.  I was mesmerized by both her turn of mind and her turn of phrase. I never aspired to write the great American novel, or even the great American short story, despite being an avid reader as soon as I had mastered the art. But often, as I read the inspiring work of these brilliant women, I have moments of "if only"...  At a certain age, I think we all regret at least one path we didn't pursue.  For me, essayist is one of those paths not taken.  In the meantime, I will continue to delight in the combination of thoughtfulness, poignancy, wisdom, and humor delivered by these women I have loved.

Quote of the Day -- Angela N Blount

Sometimes the most scenic roads in the life are the detours you didn't mean to take. 
-- Angela N. Blount

Saturday, March 14, 2020

Quote of the Day -- Susan Sontag

Illness is the night-side of life, a more onerous citizenship. Everyone who is born holds dual citizenship, in the kingdom of the well and in the kingdom of the sick. Although we all prefer to use only the good passport, sooner or later each of us is obliged, at least for a spell, to identify ourselves as citizens of that other place. 
– Susan Sontag

Friday, March 13, 2020

Quote of the Day -- James Clear

Your current habits are perfectly designed to deliver your current results. 
-- James Clear

Thursday, March 12, 2020

Quote of the Day -- Jean de la Bruyère

The true spirit of conversation consists more in bringing out the cleverness of others than in showing a great deal of it yourself; he who goes away pleased with himself and his own wit is also greatly pleased with you. 
--  Jean de la Bruyère

Wednesday, March 11, 2020

Quote of the Day -- Anne Lamott

Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you. 
-- Anne Lamott

Tuesday, March 10, 2020

Quote of the Day -- Mary Oliver

One tree is like another tree, but not too much. One tulip is like the next tulip, but not altogether. More or less like people—a general outline, then the stunning individual strokes.
-- Mary Oliver